College Admissions: 10 Pieces of Advice for College Freshmen and Their Parents
Cristiana Quinn, GoLocalProv College Admissions Expert
College Admissions: 10 Pieces of Advice for College Freshmen and Their Parents
For freshman getting set to live on their own for the first time, it's a very exciting but nervous time, sometimes more so for the parents than the students.
As moving day nears, GoLocal's College Admissions expert Cristiana Quinn has some advice for both students and parents.
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10 Pieces of Advice for College Freshmen and Their Parents
Students
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Organize your dorm room items now, and assess what you need to ship vs. transport in the car. This will alleviate stress before you leave for school. Use a printable checklist for your dorm room, like this one.
Students
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When you arrive at college, don't expect everything to be perfect. Your roommate, classes or sports team may not be everything that you dreamed of, and that's okay. Make the best of it, and remember that college gets easier after you adjust in the first semester. Stay in touch with friends and family from home, but transition to your new life. Don't live virtually (texting) hanging on to the past too much--live in the moment in your new community.
Students
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Make sure you know where health services is on campus and the hours. Also, know where the closest hospital is, in case health services is closed. Visit the academic support center and learn about tutoring and study skills resources in the first week of school---BEFORE you need them.
Students
5
Join at least 3 organizations or clubs on campus. This will give you a chance to meet a variety of people outside of your dorm and classes. Chances are that these students will be more aligned with your interests and values. Intramural sports teams, the campus newspaper, community service groups, political groups, outing clubs are all good.
Parents
1
Don't hover at orientation and drop-offs. This is a difficult time, but resist the urge to linger.
Parents
2
Get a healthcare proxy signed before your son/daughter goes off to campus. This is critical for students over 18, otherwise you will not have access to medical info in the case of and emergency (due to healthcare privacy laws). You need to be able to speak with doctors and make decisions remotely and quickly if anything happens.
Parents
3
Expect some bumps in the road. Homesickness is normal, as are issues with roommates and professors. Be supportive at a distance. Never call a professor, and try not to text your child multiple times a day. This is the time to let them learn independence and more responsibility. They can deal with issues if you give them the chance.
Parents
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Book now for parent weekends and special events on campus for the rest of 2015-16 year. Hotels get overloaded during big weekends.
Parents
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Avoid pushing a major--this usually leads to unhappiness and causes stress in the family. It's good to provide students with resources, but encourage them to seek career testing and counseling on-campus with professors and the Career Center. Discuss options, but don't dictate or pressure students to select something too early.
