Fit For Life: You Can...and You Will..
Matt Espeut, GoLocalProv Health +Lifestyle Contributor
Fit For Life: You Can...and You Will..

Where would Apple be if Steve Jobs listened to people who told him he would never compete with Microsoft? Or Arnold Schwarzenegger, if he listened to people tell him that an Austrian immigrant could never hold office in America? Or where would our country be if all the space exploration experts listened when all those other experts said you can’t put a man on the moon?
Change the negative mindset…your body will follow.
GET THE LATEST BREAKING NEWS HERE -- SIGN UP FOR GOLOCAL FREE DAILY EBLASTSo when you come to me at Providence Fit Body Boot camp and you do the program, and I map out your nutrition plan, and you tell me you can’t follow the plan, or do a push up, I dismiss the statement with a “you can and you will” response. I am regularly reminding people that if one human is capable of performing a certain task, we all are, and you need to change the negative mindset in order to achieve your goals, weather that be fitness or life in general. What makes one human being more successful or healthier, or more educated, or more fit than another? It's usually because the fit guy never said “I can't workout because of my busy schedule”. Or the successful one never said, “I can't make it happen”, or the educated one never thought “I can't pass this class”.
The mind-muscle connection.
When you throw your hands in the air and say, “I can’t”, you won't, because many things require mental positivity equal to physical strength. Many exercises require mental focus to make the mind-muscle connection, which in turn relates to body awareness, creating better balance and muscle control. So when you enter with a negative mindset, you will fail, because by saying you can't you have given up hope, and refusing to try eliminates all chances for success. I must have said this to someone recently in my Boot camp because I overheard a client say "I don't think I can do this, but I can't tell Matt because he'll get mad, so I am going to try". She said it jokingly, but tried to master the move, because I motivated her to make an attempt. I told her in the beginning that the words “I can't” aren't allowed in my Boot camp, and now she is working harder, and I am confident she will see amazing results that wouldn't be possible if she maintained the negative mindset. Remember this quote with all things hard, but to help you keep working forwards to your goal: “You will miss 100% of the shots you don't take."

