College Admissions: 6 Tips for Adjusting to College Life

Cristiana Quinn, GoLocalProv College Admissions Expert

College Admissions: 6 Tips for Adjusting to College Life

Over the next few weeks, hordes of students will be heading off to college for the first time. Cars will be packed to the roof with new pillows, quilts, laptops and televisions. But more than anything else, families and young adults will be filled with expectations and anxiety. Will I like my roommate? Are the courses that I chose too hard? How much will I miss my friends and family? It is true that more than 30% of students don’t return to the same college after their first year. So, here are a few simple tips to help make your adjustment to college life a success.

1. Don’t expect your dorm room to be the Four Seasons.

Many kids today have their own spacious, personally decorated bedroom and bathroom. It can be a shock to see your dorm room with mint green cinder block walls and a bathroom that you share with 20 others. Take a deep breath, talk to your roommate about how to give the room character with decorating (either together or by splitting up the walls), and embrace the fun morning conversations that go on across shower stalls in the bathroom! Remember that living with a variety of people is a life lesson to be embraced. You may not have loved all your high school friends if you had to live with them 24/7 either, so be tolerant.

2. Start off strong academically.

As some of you may have discovered in high school, it is hard to recover from a low freshman GPA. The same applies in college. So, be at EVERY class first semester. Plan your study time each day. Start large assignments early and ASK FOR HELP at the first sign that you may be struggling with a subject. Almost every college in the US has an academic support center where you can get help for writing, math or whatever subject ails you - take advantage of it!

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3. Join clubs.

After four years of grueling high school days filled with sports, clubs and other extra-curriculars to help you get into college, many kids just want to sit back and relax in college. This is a mistake. Joining a club or two allows you to meet a variety of individuals outside of your dorm. It is also easier to manage your newfound freedom in college when you keep your patterns relatively stable. SO, if you were very active in high school and achieved good grades, you may find yourself lost or faltering if you don’t stay highly engaged in college.

4. Everything in moderation.

This is my mom’s favorite saying, and it’s true. The smartest thing that you can do in college is to watch and assess the climate for the first few weeks. Let the other kids make mistakes, and learn from them. Parties are a big temptation, and I am not saying don’t go. What I am saying is that you should be the one having a good time without trying to win the tequila shot contest or trying the infamous “party punch." Three a.m. at the library is an equally dangerous spot. Pre-med students often run themselves ragged with no sleep in order to get the top grade in every class. The “overachiever study competition” can get fierce, and it’s not a wise idea. The best way to get through a rigorous curriculum is to eat well, get plenty of sleep, exercise AND study.

5. Be part of your new community, don’t live in the past.

Technology today makes it easy to text old friends or your parents 50 times a day, but that’s not a good idea when you are trying to assimilate on a new campus. Keeping connections is good, clinging to them is not. You can see your old friends when you go home on vacations and stay in touch. But, you need to form new group of friends and embrace new activities where you will be for the next four years. You also need to gain a sense of independence from your parents as you enter adulthood. So, stay in contact, but not to the extent that you depend on the old and miss out on what is new.

6. Safety first.

It’s sad but true that college campuses and the surrounding areas (whether in the city or country) seem to attract crime. So, be smart! Never walk alone at night. If you are on campus, call campus security, and if you are off campus, call a cab. Don’t leave your drink unattended or with someone you don’t know well at a party or in a bar; date rape drugs are easy to slip in a drink when you aren’t looking. And finally, lock your car doors when driving and your dorm room door at night.
 
College is an exciting time, but it is also a BIG change. So, don’t be discouraged if everything doesn’t go exactly as you planned. Stay positive, stay active, and know that by Christmas vacation most students love their new campus and friends!

Cristiana Quinn, M.Ed. is the founder of College Admission Advisors, LLC, a Providence-based educational consulting firm which provides strategic, individual counseling for college-bound students. http://www.collegeadvisorsonline.com

Editor's Note: This article was originally published on August 2, 2010.


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